Recently there have been a couple of high profile incidents involving two different celebrities from two dramatically different public arenas which continue to attract the attention of most major news agencies. At first glance the two incidents may not seem even remotely connected. However, I believe they demonstrate a problem which links them together at their most basic origin.
The first incident occurred during the U.S. Open Tennis match between Serena Williams and Kim Clijsters. Even if you’ve never watched a single tennis match in your life I am almost certain you have heard of Ms. William’s conduct toward one of the line judges during the championship match. Williams lost her temper after the lineswoman called a foot fault, resulting in a double-fault and loss of a critical point. But it was more than just losing her temper and a point in the game. One newspaper described her conduct as a “profanity laced finger-pointing tirade.” The “tirade” against the lines judge ultimately cost Serena Williams the championship match and she was fined $10,000 for unsportsmanlike conduct.
The other incident happened during the MTV Video Music Award show. Kanye West, a famous rapper musician (do those two words go together?), became upset when teenage country music star Taylor Swift won the award for best female video. Seemingly unable to keep his temper, Kanye took the stage, interrupted Taylor Swift’s speech, grabbed the microphone and began to denounce the decision of the voters. He then proceeded to assert that Beyonce's "Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)" was more deserving of the award, much to the dismay of the audience.
To their credit Serena Williams and Kanye West have both offered public apologies for their behavior. But I believe there is a commonality in these two celebrities behavior that not only connects them to each other – but is common to all of us. It is called simply - pride.
Ultimately Serena Williams believed that she could not possibly have double-faulted or that someone had the nerve to call her on it and took her anger out on the one in authority who dared to make the call. That’s pride!
Ultimately Kanye West thought that his personal opinion concerning the best female video was above that of those in authority who presented the award to Taylor Swift. He also thought that he had the right to voice his opinion to a national television audience and to the embarrassment of both Taylor Swift and Beyonce’. That’s pride!
Now, before anyone reading this article (even more so this article’s author) begins to think we are not capable of such acts, let me provide you a simple definition of pride. Pride is improper and excessive self-esteem known as conceit or arrogance and is ultimately a statement against God-given authority in our lives. We demonstrate pride every time we think that we are better than anyone. We demonstrate pride when we get impatient and think that we shouldn’t have to wait in a line – like everyone else. We demonstrate pride when we think that the speed limit is for everyone else – but me. We demonstrate pride when we compare ourselves to others and think less of them for any reason including financial status, athletic ability, musical talent, academic skill, ethnicity or even religion.
So the next time you see a famous celebrity behaving in manner which demonstrates pride, don’t proudly say:”I would never act that way.” Rather admit that it is only the grace of God that keeps you and me from behaving far worse. I know this author needs all of God’s grace and that I am doing far better than I deserve.

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